"Why go out with people that aren't at the same level as you?"

This phrase really stuck out to me. I respectfully disagree that people who are getting drunk (as long as they're not driving or hurting others) and/or "hanging out with girls" are not at the same level as partnered people. That's really rude.

Being single is awesome too and in my social circle, even married men (and women) spend plenty of time hanging out with other people of both genders, at least prior to the pandemic.

(And before you accuse me of being an unhappy and single hedonist, I'm happily married, thank you.)

But to me, loyalty is the fact I know my husband wouldn't cheat. And I have literally no reason to worry. I can't imagine telling him not to hang out with his single female friends anymore than I'd have married someone who prevented me from hanging out with my male friends, some of whom get super drunk.

This is one of those moments I just feel culture needs to change. Guys and girls can just be friends y'all.