Just a few random thoughts to be taken with several grains of salt:

I am shocked this deterred some of the men you were describing at all. In my experience, men swipe right on the picture, even on Match, and don't read the profile. (But this is a great profile, so in that case, they'd be missing out.)

That being said, I really doubt this would work for everyone. I know a lot of people--like me!--who'd use the list as an end-all be-all even if we'd otherwise be a good match and you might miss out on someone who's perfect in every way but one.

I also really, really, really don't think this would work for a man. If a man had a list like this, I'd probably assume he's controlling and not a feminist.