Entirely true that who you are and your confidence matters more. Also, yes. Most grabby men come with a side of sexual harassment.

I also take your point on female bullying. Honestly, you might be right. Women in law school became a lot meaner to me, often because I was popular with the guys (something that also made me uncomfortable). But I don’t like to tear down other women and to be honest, there could be a million other reasons they disliked me, so I didn’t write about it.